“It’s funny how some
want to withdraw where they never deposited.”-Time & Effort
“Plant where you
prosper, give where you need and want for nothing…”-YOUR Inner Wisdom
Speaking
I’ve thought about this topic/subject/issue/whatever you
want to call it… so much in these last weeks with the end of 2012, and
beginning of 2013.
In moving forward, I
thought about the many times we question
why we don’t have what we want or feel like we lack what we “think” we need…many
explanations come to mind, some we consider and others we don’t even
contemplate their possible truth.
So…with all those thoughts in a bubble, I’m wondering…
When you hear:
+ Plant where you prosper…
+ Sow where you wish to reap…
+ Deposit where you
want/need to withdraw…
+ Etc….
…What do YOU think about?
+ Thoughts
+ Time
+ Money
+ Relationships
+ Efforts…
ALL OF THAT!!!!!????
Yea me too…
Let’s talk about it…well some of it, then we’ll be creative and relate the rest of it (On
our own time)...Deal? Deal.
Sometimes pride
will keep us from getting to the answer, or knowing the truth because its
weight may be too heavy to handle (at least it appears that way).
Personal GYC Story
Year after year, I tend to let go of a lot of things, I call
it “clean house often and with caution”…
and 2013 is no different.
For this cleanup, I
needed to focus on my time, attention and relationships, specifically
friendships (or the lack thereof, it is what it is). I kept getting distracted,
frustrated and mad with an expression of
“WOW…These people must be Crazy!!!”
In the midst of these
emotions, and eventually coming back to reality where change begins in the
mirror, I began to evaluate why
and where does my focus go and paying attention to the
parts/aspects/details that bothered me, and obviously
not helping me move forward.
1. My time and efforts. I really had to zoom out to zoom in on what
is for me…right now. If you can tell from past GYC posts…my
mind and ideas travel here, there and everywhere, so, I’m willing to give
some opportunities thought before I say “no,” or decide to go for it with or
without training wheels…including suggestions from others.
However…in the desire to pursue and peel back all the layers of who I
am, I realized that the I, I am today
is right on track for peeling each layer back for its pre-set time…and to just
RELAX and Be! (This sounds a lil like “Don’t
Take the Elevator…” ---Some days YOU,
ME, WE have to be our own inspiration and reminder…)
*Side Note: As amazing as our ideas are right now or will
develop to amazing-ness (new word on the scene), we don’t have to worry about
someone coming out with it first or stealing our essence because the ideas that are really ours were given to
us for only us to create, develop and actually be profitable…successful and
achieve that which we started.*
2.
Relationships…friendships.
I’m not a fan of 1-sided friendships…at all. I see friends as teammates
that need you well and in the game to win, and if that “teammate” decides
to just be a quiet bystander when things look unsure…they most definitely will not be appreciated when things are sure
and everybody is cheering. *Many “Girl YOU Crazy” faces
(to them) in all that above either in my own life or observing it in those
younger, young and older.*
What I have come to know and accept is…
My preparation
positions me for my ability to stand when it’s time to live out what I was
designed to be.
As in…watching this activity, in
the process…opens our eyes to receive people as the person they want to
be in your life versus forcing them to
be someone they are not equipped to be for you…and you for them.
The truth still remains that some need to be loved from a
distance…which is Courageous.
And in all of this “cleaning often and with caution”…a friend of mine
had a birthday, and I GYC’ed her gift all the way!!! A box full of random
items that somewhat told a story…but the fact that the items were so random, I
wasn’t sure if she would understand it and think that it was as funny as I
thought it was…
At midnight on her
birthday, she calls laughing and basically says…
it was the best random birthday gift
box ever!!!!! And we LAUGHED.
“OooKay Girl!”
BUT…what really stuck out in cleaning house and the topic “planting where you prosper” was the
special note she wrote on Tumblr describing the gifts she received from her
friends/sisters that go back to their own homes. The note meant my thoughts were appreciated
by knowing that I am on a team and someone appreciates me being on theirs even
when we get on each other’s nerves!
I can appreciate
my teammates/friends/comrades…(YOU get it), when I recognize and accept people
for who they show me…they are.
GYC Rant…admit it, YOU knew it was coming (or you probably thought the whole
post was a rant…)!!!
I’m going to be completely honest…more because I’m not a
good liar… but many of us (myself included) give so many people and things…
opportunities and attention that he/she/it should have never received/gotten/possessed
because we gave access…Now we’re wondering where the real stuff/people
are because we’re over the temporary things that once had our attention.
It’s up to us to
deposit where we want to withdraw, to give where we want to receive, to plant
where we want to prosper…and recognize that YOU, Me, WE DO have “it” in us to
change what is in front of us.
I’m almost done with my declaration to stop planting seeds in the fools’
garden…Mmm hmm…
Say “no” to
the things that will keep you from saying, “yes” to the things and people that
will embrace you and help you grow.
GYC Girl YOU Crazy Quotes…although
all the other quotes are GYC too…
“Sometimes
we think we're investing where we'll see a profit when honestly…it is a waste
of time draining us of our present joy and resources.”
“Let passion breathe and it will show you
where to plant/give/sow/deposit so you’re not surprised by the result.”
“Sometimes you have to let go of
things/people/whatever that could possibly be hindering you from withdrawing because
you’re not able to deposit.”
“Planting where you prosper, sowing where you
reap, depositing where you can withdraw…IS positioning yourself to be all of
who YOU want to be.”-Life as We Know It
----GYC Girl YOU Crazy
